Comments on: How to cope when people hate you

By: Zoe

Zoe — Thu, 22 Dec 2011 17:08:53 +0000

Hey! Thanks for the advice. Can you believe I came across this blog becasue I had googled ‘How to deal with being hated’? What kind of world do we live in when human beings have to resort to that? Anyway, I googled this phrase because I am hated in my workplace for a number of reasons. I believe these reasons consist of: (1) Because I dont suck up to management (2) Because I have a life outside of work and therefore my life doesnt revolve around work (3) Because I have been off work a number of times due to a medical condition.
I have now been told that I am no longer needed at my workplace so am leaving next week.
I was also subjected to the management distributing christmas gifts to everyone but me yesterday. It gets me really down. I have to try and hold me head up high because I do not want to be defined by such people, and the only person who has the right to judge me is me. But it is hard. I do agree that we all need someone to talk to and I am grateful for that! Thanks to everyone who is reading this and if you are hurting like me because of other people’s hate, you are not alone and at least we know deep down that we can only be ourselves, nothing more. Love to all x

By: Shane

Shane — Wed, 02 Nov 2011 18:11:23 +0000

Thanks. Loved this post. I’m taking your “Rules of engagement with haters” and posting it on my desktop to remind myself how to deal with the continual internet stupidity I have to deal with.

By: Allan Hutchinson

Allan Hutchinson — Tue, 23 Aug 2011 10:04:10 +0000

Ella,Your experience in living life even has a 49 year old man at times in tears and at times absolutely inthralled in your road through life.Your maturity is beyond your years, yet the way you tell your story, makes it very similiar to mine and many other people on their journey of life.Loved your appearance in the Boy and Bear Video.Cut a path through the world Ella,you’re doing well.

By: orbital

orbital — Mon, 13 Jun 2011 04:48:23 +0000

Thank you. I was having a kinda bad evening from something off-putting and found this article. This makes me feel a lot better and makes me feel too good to write snarky comments on my fb wall. Thank you for your intervention.

By: Farneville

Farneville — Tue, 07 Jun 2011 06:16:20 +0000

I was just googling about this and glad to have landed here.
I have a co-worker that keeps on giving hints about me and surely hates me for some odd reason that I do not know. I was thinking of asking her what here problem is but I’d rather not as advised here.
This is not the first time and many people seem to hate me. I don’t know if there is something wrong with me or it’s just the way I look, act, talk etc. I came a different site and they advised to just be myself.

By: Charles

Charles — Thu, 10 Feb 2011 20:31:47 +0000

this is a really cool blog
i dont get how people could hate someone like you, its people like you that make life so much more interesting!!

By: pdub

pdub — Thu, 25 Nov 2010 07:54:12 +0000

Sound advice, as always, Ella.

By: Katy Shultz

Katy Shultz — Fri, 29 Oct 2010 19:29:39 +0000

Amazing insight, good advice! I have a couple of women right now that are dedicated and loyal trolls in my life. No matter what I do or where I go they always seem to follow me and throw sticks.

By: Tori Rowland

Tori Rowland — Sat, 16 Oct 2010 13:11:35 +0000

Thanks for the post and the great advice.
Tori

By: Yssebelle

Yssebelle — Mon, 11 Oct 2010 20:02:07 +0000

I love this!